ok blogging friends, I am looking for your opinions - nothing is right or wrong, and no, I am not writing a book.
I would like to know, what is your opinion of marriage?
Do you think marriage an antiquated ritual?
Are you married? and if yes, is it happily married (be honest, you can pm me if you want)
If your not married, are you living together?
And for all my gay and lesbian friends, if your state recognizes marriage by two same sex partners, have you tied the not? if not why?
Thanks all!
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts and situation with me. I understand where you are....I am also divorced 5 years....not sure I would do it again....Best wishes in your future.
It is the same thing with children. I love my son more than anything, but there are people who should not have children. Society dictates way too much. Considering over half of all marriages end in divorce, we can't exactly say marriage is overly successful. I have trust that my soon to be wife is what I have been looking for.
Maybe because we have a full house -- 3 year old, my mother, his father, dog, bunny -- it's been source of support for me. I have a stressful job where I need to interact and negotiate with all types of people. When I get a home, I return to "my clan." The folks who are legally and by blood bound to me. All together, we navigate this life.
My husband and I are very different -- I'm 14 years older than him! We fight a lot. We are both handfuls. But at the end of the day, we love each other and are a team. It's really great.